When I met Bella my life was all about my boyfriend, his problems and his lifestyle and it was sucking all of my energy. I knew my fear, worries, stress and exhaustion were mostly due to my unbalanced relationship, but I wasn’t ready to face it because I felt my boyfriend needed me and that breaking up with him would destroy him. When I found out he was cheating one me, I saw the relationship was actually destroying me and that I was living for him rather than for myself.
Working with Bella helped me to get centred and balanced again and to stop making myself smaller than I actually am. I started to focus on the things that really matter for me and to be aware of the people I surround myself with. I regained a lot of self-confidence and strength.
"Bella is a f*cking angel. I know, the words f*ck and angel do not really go together, but that's what Bella is like! She has the skills of an angel who gets sh*t together; no matter how impossible it seems to be at first, she will help you to make your life happen and to feel awesome about it".
I am so glad we met. Bella has the qualities of a sister whom I would share anything and also the professionalism which makes her so credible and trustworthy. She is an example and I am super stoked to be part of her project.
My12for12 helped me see what I really need in life in order to be fulfilled and happy. It confirmed the values, principles, dreams and visions I live for and want to be able to express fully. It helped me to build a base that was a total backup and support during my break-up. I didn’t have to overthink decisions; I simply made them because My12for12 helped me to realise who I am and that I am awesome the way I am and that there should be no one trying to stop me or trying to make me feel sh*t. I want a life full of adventures, happiness and positive vibes. My12for12 gave me the key to get centred again and live this life, here and now.
My12for12 helped me to believe in myself and be active rather than passive. When I broke up with my boyfriend I also had to prepare for a very difficult exam: only 10% pass it each year. I gave myself a big kick in the ass and made it - out of 10 participants I am the only one who passed. I then went to California to revitalise - My12for12 taught me how important the ocean, surfing and traveling are for me so it was a logical next step.